Artistic GAYS!

Who are your favorite people to be around?

Back in high school, before I even knew I wasn’t straight, I always found myself fond of those somewhat overweight super gay trans people with the dyed hair. They always had the best sense of humor and no judgement! I felt as if they understood me and I could really be myself with them! They were always my kind of people!

In highschool, I ended up in a friend group with 3 of them! We’re all short and stubby and laughing at the stupidest things. One of my favorite quotes by one: “Yellow can be a verb is you believe hard enough!” They were talking about sign language. I shared most of my classes with 2 of these friends and the third I met in middle school. The two of us became friends when I was making jokes about “the dark side” after half of the power in the art room went out. I introduced him to the rest of my friends and in high school we grew closer.

Sadly, I haven’t had the chance to talk to them. One of them ended up becoming kind of a jerk after going into governer’s school. One dropped out our junior year and the other one ended up moving after our freshman year. I still talk to the last two from time to time and really hope to see them again at some point! I miss them.

I also ended up meeting another one in college. Art class again! We’re all artists in one way or another, actually! They were actually fluid and one of the few friends I had in college (the one year I went). I hadn’t talked to them much after I flunked out, though, but I still miss them! They were a cool person!

I do have a few trans friends on discord and we even record a few episodes together! I just love artistic chaotic people and for some reason my trans dudes are it! They’re one of the few people who can actually match or even top my energy!


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84 responses to “Artistic GAYS!”

  1. I’m so sorry, i have a quick question 😅. So you said like your gay right? So, have you come out to your parents? And if so, were they accepting and Like what’s the easiest way to tell them? I’m not sure how to ask the question. A little background, I’m 16 and i’m female but am Non-Binary and like girls. I’m not fully sure how my mom feels about the lgbtq community. I wanted to tell her for awhile now, but am scared to tell her. Any advice??😶‍🌫🫣

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    1. Yes! I am pan myself. Personally, I knew my mother was accepting of everyone and would love me no matter what. I was nervous to tell my father and my mother helped me out with that. (If you want the full story you can probably look up my coming out story on my page). It’s different for every person and the only thing I can say is don’t force yourself. Talk when you feel you’re ready. It’s a very nerve-wracking experience that sometimes doesn’t go how you think it will. Sometimes it’s better and sometimes worse. Make sure you have a community of people backing you and someone on your side no matter how things go. But I’ve found that you can usually gauge how their reaction will be before you say anything 😉 sometimes nerves get the better of you. Maybe start with telling her you associate as non-binary first and gauge that reaction before telling her you like girls? I don’t know your family so I can’t say much about the best way to approach them

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      1. Thanks and sorry again. I just happen to read your blog and it caught my attention Idk why. And i tend to overthink thing which would often lead to a panick attack (I’ve had a panick attack about this before) But since you said i don’t have to rush and tell her when I’m ready, i feel a little better. I just don’t want to wait until it’s too late if that makes sense. Thank you again and I’m going to leave you alone now. Sorry and Thank you!!!😊🏳‍🌈

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      2. Don’t worry about it! I love answering comments!

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      3. Hey i’m sorry but i need someone to talk to. Do you have a minute?

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      4. I just got this, what’s up?

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      5. Hey i hope your having a good day, sorry for bothering you. My mom found out i cut myself, and she says that she’s not mad but I’m worrying she’ll commit me.

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      6. These things are never easy. If you aren’t already, you should try therapy. Hospitalization is not always the best option and really only for when things get really bad. There are a few ways to help cope and manage with these thoughts. One I found, is drawing on my skin. It may be important to talk to her thoroughly and come up with a plan. For example, whenever you feel like doing this, it’s better to not be alone. Call a friend, distract yourself, or just be in a common room for a bit. It’s always a good idea to come up with a safety plan. Discussing this with her might help put her mind a little more at ease and let her know that you don’t need to be committed somewhere.

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      7. And I know it’s hard and scary. Take a few deep breaths and keep in mind that it can get better. I’ve been where you’ve been and I know that it’s hard. But you’re not as alone as you feel. Mom’s always worry because they love you so deeply. This is something you’ll have to work out together. It may help to find resources online for coping strategies and more information on depression. Knowing the symptoms and strategies to manage them don’t entirely solve the issue, but they do make it better. Depression is something that doesn’t entirely go away but it does get easier and more manageable with time. Even if right now it doesn’t feel like it. Right now it feels like this is forever, but so long as you stubbornly hold onto hope that tomorrow may get better, you might end up surprised.

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      8. Thanks this means alot

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      9. i’m not my best self today, i barely got any sleep, and having mood swings so I’m sorry if I was bothering you or stopped you from what you were doing.
        I’ll leave you alone now I’m sorry again.

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      10. You have nothing to apologize for. We all have days we’re down and need a little help. I am always willing to listen and just be here. I’m sorry I didn’t see your comment sooner, but I truly hope your day gets better. Get some rest. Take some time for you. And don’t beat yourself up over the small stuff. You can reach out anytime you need! I’m glad you reached out today! I’m glad you feel safe to reach out to me! I want you to feel safe.

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      11. Ok, thank you. Hope you had a nice day. I’m about to sign off for today. thx again.😔

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      12. Hey i did you have a good weekend? I was wondering if I could ask you a quick question?

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      13. Yeah! What’s up?

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      14. I like this girl but i dont want to scare her since I don’t know her name, age, nor sexuality. I just have her picture(She’s pretty cute). i don’t know what to do?? Advice??😶‍🌫

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      15. She’s not you just to be clear. And she’s really pretty😁. Like as far as I’m reading she and I are the same i feel as tho I could connect with her. I just don’t know how to ask about her sexual preferences….

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      16. I would take the time to talk to her more and get to know her! Personally, I’ve only ever grown attraction by getting to know someone. If you can find a way to strike up a conversation about whatever common interests you have, you can build on that later and find a more natural way to learn her preferences!

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      17. Thank you. And you didn’t think i was talking about you….. did you?

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      18. No, I didn’t! No worries!

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      19. Yea sorry i didn’t specify😅. And thank you I appreciate you replying to me. Thank you…

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      20. You’re welcome! I hope it goes well!

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      21. Hey not feeling the greatest right now. I dont know i just dont feel okay mentaly…. When you read this can you get back to me…

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      22. I know how those days go… they sometimes just sort of hit out of the blue. Did you want to talk about it?

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      23. Yeah. I dont know, i guess i’m trying not to cut anymore its not going to good.

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      24. It’s hard, it always is. Especially when you’re in that place. That doesn’t mean you aren’t trying. Just the fact you came here to talk it out, or you’re even trying in the first place proves it. Don’t let that voice in the back of your head tell you you aren’t good enough. You’re doing better than you think and it proves your inner strength, even if you don’t feel it now

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      25. I’m sorry i dont mean to put this on you. i don’t want to put this on you. i just dont know who to talk to.

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      26. No! You’re okay! I understand! Find comfortable and support wherever you can! If this works for you, I’m happy! You aren’t bothering me at all! I’m always happy to help and just talk it out! I’ve been there and I know how hard it is!

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      27. Are you sure, i’m not hurting you??

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      28. Not at all! I’ve been where you’ve been. It took me a long time to quit and it was really hard. It isn’t easy. The best thing I can say is just try to distract yourself. Watch a movie, read a book, talk to someone you trust. When you’re feeling low it’s easy to fall back into bad habits, we’re all victims of this. (I’ve pretty much been watching TV and playing video games nonstop for days 😅) It isn’t a simple solution, it’s a process. Like every habit, it’s hardest to stop at the beginning, but it does get easier over time. Now I can always remind myself of how far I’ve come and all those who care about me. It’s gotten a lot easier for me to brush those thoughts away and move on than it was back then. The hardest part is finding ways to help you cope.

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      29. I dont know who to talk to. I don’t talk to most people. I thought blogging about it would make it better but it feels like the opposite. I just don’t know what to do. i feel like I take one step forwards and then I get sent bak to where I was. don’t get mad or say something generic please, but sometimes I think about giving up. i don’t want sympathy I just want to get better and i’m trying so hard.

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      30. I’m not mad. I don’t anger that easily. There is no “make it better.” And there isn’t much I can really say or do to help. It isn’t easy. It isn’t pretty. It just sucks. It does. I won’t lie to you. It’s going to suck. Like a lot. That is part of it… all I can really say is just keep pushing. And maybe I sound like a broken record or some kind of self-help book, but that’s pretty much it. Just… stubbornly push until it stops sucking..

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      31. I’ll try ig. Thanks. Btw she’s straight (the girl i told you about)

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      32. Damn, that sucks…

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      33. Mhm. how is your day going ig

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      34. Not too bad. I got to sleep in this morning!

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      35. Oh thats good. Do you still want to talk or are you done. i don’t want to hold you against your will.

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      36. It’s all good! I still have a couple of hours before work and such and I’m just chillin.

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      37. Oh okay i’ll let you go then. Thank you for helping me.

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      38. Oh um.. okay! Let me know if you need anything!

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      39. Why um? did you want to talk still?

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      40. Sorry, just took a shower. I’m honestly fine either way. I can’t always promise I’ll respond right away, but I’m always down for a conversation

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      41. Lol. you didn’t need to tell me you took a shower lol. Its fine. and I feel a little better😉

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      42. Thank you i really mean it.

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      43. Anytime! I’m glad you feel better! And I really hope one of these days your mind can leave that dark place for longer than a few moments. Get some rest and have a wonderful day!

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      44. You too. And have a nice day/afternoon at work.

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      45. Hey good morning i hope you had a happy easter.🐰^_^

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      46. I did! I went to my parents for dinner with my siblings which is always interesting! How was your Easter?

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      47. Lol. Isn’t life interesting? It was great. I got to see my siblings and we went to a Habachi place. then went for ice cream. It was fun. I saw a bunny that was really pretty at petco. (It’s kinda sad there just in cages..)

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      48. Oh! My mom actually raises rabbits! And yes, it is sad to see them in cages… I’d love to have a pet rabbit one day but I don’t see that going well with my cat

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      49. Cat!! I love cats. I want a cat named Arlo. or a pit bull. idk. I wrote my mom a 2 page essay on why I should get a bunny. And whats wrong with your cat😅

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      50. I’m just worried my cat will try to eat a rabbit! That’s why he isn’t allowed in my room! I don’t want him to eat my turtle

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      51. Lol😂. I hardly doubt your cat can bite through a turtle shell. Whats your cats name? And your endangered turtle😂

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      52. My cat’s name is Max. I actually have a post with pictures of him somewhere and my turtle’s name is Mia.

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      53. AWWWWW!!! So adorable. My brother wants a turtle. I don’t think I like turtles as pets…. I like looking at giant tortoises. Btw My 3rd grade teacher had a cat named max and she would tell us stories about him. Mia’s a cute turtle name btw.

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      54. Thanks! I really like watching her swim around and dig in the gravel. I just really like turtles though. A tortoise is fun too though!

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      55. Well, it was nice talking to you. I’m going to finish reading this wattpad book post, (Big “The100” fan) Thanks for talking. I’ll talk to you tomorrow.😊

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      56. Sorry, reading. Thanks😅

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      57. Hey morning. My guinea pig died today

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      58. Oh no! I’m so sorry!

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      59. Its fine he’s in a better place eating apples. How is your morning going?

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      60. Should i have spoken up when my mom said to throw him in the trash?? Like idk…

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      61. If your pet means a lot to you, you can have a proper little funeral for it! My brother had a burial for a fish. It’s your pet, your emotional needs. If you want to find a place to bury it, you can do that

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      62. Picking him up made me not want to be a vet anymore. Like he was heavy and it scared me😅🫣

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      63. Being a vet is hard! Not everyone realizes that being a vet means putting down animals in pain. It isn’t easy but sometimes you have to be the one to end the suffering… it was really hard for me to see my dog get put down, but she had a brain tumor and wasn’t really there anymore. I stayed by her side the whole time because I didn’t want her to be alone in her final moments. It’s not easy but it’s better than letting her suffer

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      64. Oh my god. I’m sorry about your dog. I’m sorry i didn’t mean to make you sad or anything. are you okay now?

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      65. Oh! I’m fine! This was almost 2 years ago. Sometimes I still get upset thinking about her but not so much I can’t talk about it. Yes, it’s hard, but I’m happy I was there to say goodbye. She left the world smiling 🥲

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      66. Thats good. Are you okay, i had asked three times how your morning was.😅

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      67. Oh! Yeah! I’m a little tired. I was up late gaming and had to wake up early for an appointment. Lol

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      68. Oh lol. get some sleep then.😊

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      69. I have to go to work and then lots of sleep

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      70. Anyways….. How was your morning going?

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      71. Like my mom told me that my dad had been to prison before, and yeah I’m 16 and it shouldn’t phase me. But it does, I’ve lived with him… and it hurts that she would even keep that from me. The only reason I found out was, I was searching myself on google (My immature side lol) and had seen a mugshot of my dad. and a court docet with my name in it.
        i know it shouldn’t phase me but it does that’s part of the reason I feel the way I feel.

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      72. Whether it phases you or not, you still need time to process it. That sounds like a hard pill to swallow! It’s okay to struggle with this information! Don’t tell yourself how to feel about it. Feelings don’t have a correct answer. Just let out your emotions and allow yourself to properly process everything you’re feeling. It’s okay to allow yourself to feel miserable for a bit and just sit in bed for a few days trying to wrap your head around everything. That’s how I moved on from my “hard to swallow pills.” Sometimes, we just have to “mourn the idea” just as we would a break up or a loss. It’s not an easy process but sometimes you just have to face and deal with it.

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      73. My mom found out a couple days ago and has been sorta monitoring but I broke last night. and right now I’m thinking about it but I’m trying not to. that’s why I’m reaching out ig.

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      74. I dont want her to worry about me so much. and I’m just scared.

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      75. You don’t want your mother to worry about you? (Would you be okay with me sending you another contact info like my discord so it’s easier to reach me? My dms are also open on Twitter.)

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      76. I don’t have discord and cnt have any social media pages. But it’s fine.

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      77. Now i’m just scared.

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  2. No she found out that i cut myself, I over heard her talking about it. last time I was talking about offing myself she wanted to have me committed.
    I love my mom and I don’t want to financially burden her anymore, or burden her at all anymore.

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