How often do you say “no” to things that would interfere with your goals?
I’ve wanted to be a writer since I was 11. Some may think it’s a bit short sighted to work on something I’ve wanted as a kid. Things change as you grow, right? Over the years, I’ve only grown in my passion. I know it’s what I want to do with my life and that isn’t going to change. I’ve turned down a lot of different options or opportunities because in the end, I knew I wouldn’t be happy.
In high school, I toyed with a lot of other professions that would likely pay better. I could picture myself trying these different jobs, but in the end they seemed more like fantasies than actual goals. I didn’t hold that same drive or passion for anything else. So, I focused on what I knew would make me happy. My parents insisted I get a teaching license so I could teach English if I was going to insist on getting an English degree. I even toyed with the idea of doing the five-year Master’s program for teachers. In the end though, I wanted to focus on creative writing. College ended up not working out for me anyway.
My parents then insisted I get a full time job with benefits after a year of trying. I decided to move out instead and go my own way. I love my family, and they’ve sent me lots of listings for jobs or encouraged me to go back to college, but I’ve turned them down every time. I can’t just settle for any “comfortable” life. It may not be easy, but some things are worth the fight. I found a part time job that allows me to write while I’m on the clock so I can actually focus on my dreams while the kid I work with is on her iPad. I love what I’m doing right now and I wouldn’t trade it. It’s good for my mental health and gives me the time I need to keep my home clean and focus on my goals.
In the end, I will always choose to do what helps me reach my dreams. Any full time job or college course would take all my time and energy anyway. Yes, they all have their benefits, but I’d rather keep fighting for what I know will make me happiest. I feel natural following my passions and I’m happy doing what I do. Yes, it can be stressful, but I wouldn’t trade it for anything. I will always decline anything that interferes with my goals.
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