Having autism makes it difficult for me to gauge how I react emotionally to things. I sat down and started to write my answer to this prompt just to realize, I didn’t know the answer. After some discussion with my friends and girlfriend, I ended up figuring out an answer.
My girlfriend likes to find and give me little gifts that make me think of her. For example, TMNT merchandise or penguin stuffed animals! I tend to stim when I’m very excited and hug her to show how much I love the gift. I do say thank you as well. Her gifts often bring a smile to my face! I put them up in my room, decorating my shelves and bed with these lovely gifts! Even if I don’t often use them, I show how much I appreciate her findings!
I often show gratitude to my friends just for being there for me. I like to do small things for them to help them out or just show how much I love them. I also like to give them small things that make me think of them or that I think they will enjoy. My girlfriend and I share that trait and it’s a lot of fun. It isn’t always easy, but I like to express how much I care about my friends just to show how much I appreciate their friendship and kindness.
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